My wedding ring has a story...
The first part of the story came a long time ago. In the mid 1980's, we were living in Fort Collins. We were dirt poor...didn't have too many expensive or important possessions except maybe 3 kids...and my wedding ring. One afternoon, I looked down at my ring, and the diamond was gone. Granted, it's not that huge...1/3 karat...but it was important to me. I was frantic, thinking I'd never find it. So the best thing I knew to do was to get down on my knees and pray about it. I asked Heavenly Father to please help me find my diamond. I had been everywhere that day, but I received the answer to go look on the floor of the car on the driver's side. So, that's what I did. I opened up the car door, got down and looked on the floor...the light was shining just right...and made the diamond glisten. There it was...my tiny diamond. So we took the little money we had and went to the jeweler and had it placed back in the ring, and made sure from that time on, that I checked the prongs to make sure they were not worn down. I was thankful that my ring was intact.
Next part of the story...
About 8 years ago or so...can't remember exactly...I started having problems with my fingernail on my ring finger. I thought I was getting a fungus in it or something, so I went to the doctor to get it checked out and he couldn't find anything wrong. The nail finally fell off completely. I soon discovered that my wedding ring was cutting off the circulation on my finger because I had gained weight and it was just way too small. So, with much effort and allot of soap and grease, I was finally able to get the ring over my knuckle and off the finger without having it cut off (the ring I mean). The fingernail grew back and I put the ring away in a safe place in the original box, hoping that some day I would be able to get it resized so I could wear it again. So the years went by and I would occasionally think about it, hoping that Bruce would take it in and get it resized for me. It was kind of the principle behind the whole thing...I could have done it myself, but I thought it would make a wonderful anniversary or birthday gift if he would do it for me. Then, we came to a point where we didn't have any money to get it done, knowing that gold was expensive. It didn't bother me too much not to be able to wear it, except when we went to the temple. For some reason, that bothered me. So anyway, I was talking to our friend, Nancy one day and she said she had a good jeweler that could do it for us for a good price when we were ready to do it. He had a little shop in the back of his home. Bruce remembered that, and bless his little heart, he decided that for our anniversary this year (#34) he would get my ring resized. He called Nancy all by himself (I was so proud), to get the name and phone # of the jeweler, Paul Reiley, and took the ring in to have it done. This was a friend and a former neighbor of Nancy's. Bruce took it in about 3 weeks before our anniversary. He called him to check on it the week before, and he was not in, so Bruce just left a message for him to call back. He had been out of town for the Thanksgiving holiday, and when he got back he returned the call (this was on a Tuesday morning prior to our anniversary on Friday). He said he was working on the ring and should have it ready by later that night or the next day. So we waited for a phone call back from him and he never called. On Friday, Nancy and I were together prepping for a catering job, and I thanked her for giving Bruce the information, and told her that Bruce had taken the ring in to have it resized. That's when she broke the news...the UPS man found Paul Reiley dead in his backyard on Wednesday morning. Now what? Where's my ring, and how long will it take to get it back? Nancy said she would find out some information and get back with me. On the following Monday, Nancy called and said she was going over to retrieve my ring and she would bring it to me...yeah! When we got the ring back, we realized that Paul had been working on the ring when he died...he had extended it (2 sizes), but it was not finished off. We were not charged anything, since the work was not completed. At least we had the ring back. So now we needed to find another jeweler to finish the job. Another friend gave us the name of two jewelers...Nelson Jewelers and Moretti Jewelers. Bruce first took it over to Nelson Jewelers, and there was a sign on the door stating that they no longer did business in Colorado Springs. OK...let's try Moretti Jewelers. Bruce took the ring in, told them the story, and they said, "this is a first." Bruce proceeded to tell them that if anything happened to them while they were working on the ring, that he would get rid of the ring, knowing that it was most likely "cursed." Anyway, they ended up doing a wonderful job finishing off the ring, it looks beautiful, and fits great. Total price...$35. Not bad for getting a ring sized up 2 sizes. Bruce said, "yeah, $35 and a man's life, you'll probably have to account to him in the next life." And so ends the saga of the ring.
